The invitation for men and women in the future of gender equality

“Men are so used to helping themselves that’s it’s like… they can’t help themselves…”

For a very long time now I’ve been trying to figure out why women, black women to be more specific, are angry human beings . I, like many others harbour a silent rage from my own personal experiences as well as those of my family, friends, colleagues and strangers; with this big bad world.

A lot of people ask and wonder why we are so angry and partly it’s because of how we are treated in this world; which is something we will never “get over” by the way. Being born in a world where you are seen and treated like property or an inanimate object purely based on your gender and your race is something to have a raging fury about; no- wait. It’s something to be pissed the fuck off about.

You go your merry way expecting to be treated like a human being; never mind an equal one and even on your best day the world has a huge piece of phlegm ready for your face.

In a recent Ted Talk I watched by Tracee Ellis Ross, she highlights that women have been trained to think that we are overreacting or that we are being too sensitive; or unreasonable. We try to make sense, of nonsense and we swallow the fury. We try to put it in some hidden place in our minds but it doesn’t go away.

It’s an exhausting reality and one which we must not tire speaking about, irrespective of the discomfort and ostracism. Someone’s got to do it and the sooner it clicks that we aren’t objects, we won’t tolerate it and we won’t keep quiet, the quicker it will end.

We are not overreacting and this is not “just the way it is”. The time is up on that. It is men’s responsibility to change men’s bad behavior. I repeat. It is men’s responsibility to change men’s bad behavior.

To find out the roles we aught to play in this future world, I urge you to watch the ted talk below.

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One thought on “The invitation for men and women in the future of gender equality

  1. TRUE WORDS. I recently said the same concept and posted it on Facebook. I am a white girl, and although we are supposed “to have rights” we actually do not have at the end of the day. And what it’s more sad about this..it’s the comments against my words and thoughts from men. Italian men. Same nationality as mine. THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG IN THIS WORLD.

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